How to Dance in the Rain

With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message.. This one I thought I could share with you.

The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; They just make the best of everything they have. I hope to share this with someone I care about.. Budak Itu

'Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.


It was a busy morning, about 8:30 , when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived at the hospital to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.

The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.

He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.

He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled
As he patted my hand and said,
'She doesn't know me,
But I still know who she is.'
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,

'That is the kind of love
I want in my life.'

True love is neither
Physical, nor romantic.
True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.

Renungan untuk anak2ku

Anak2ku,

kita tidak mengetahui apa yang menunggu kita di hadapan, yang pasti apa yang telah kita tinggalkan dibelakang. kita patut menoleh sekali sekala ke belakang untuk kita menjadi manusia yang lebih positif dan pada masa yang sama tidak lupa dari mana kita datang. kita juga patut belajar dari kesilapan yang telah kita atau orang disekeliling kita lakukan, supaya tiada ulangan kesilapan yang lalu. terjadi sekali kesalahan - itu kesilapan dan kita patut belajar darinya untuk tidak mengulanginya lagi, berlakunya kesalahan yang sama pada kali yang kedua, itu bukan silap, itulah kita sebenarnya. macamana cara kita nak membaiki diri kita? hanya kita yang boleh melakukannya, bukan orang lain, bukan mami or daddy, atau cikgu2, nobody can change you or be what they want you to be, it's all about you, yourself. so, mami harap anak2 mami jadilah anak yang baik, teman yang setia, murid yang patuh, hamba yang taat kepada Allah, kerana hanya dengan membuat kebaikan, hati kita merasa aman dan tenteram. dalam pergaulan seharian, kita akan berjumpa dengan berbagai2 ragam manusia, bersabarlah dengan mereka yang anak2 mami rasa kurang disenangi, kita tak tahu, mungkin satu hari nanti, orang2 yang kita kurang senangi itulah yang akan membantu kita, kerana rambut dan hati tidak sama. mami harap anak2 mami paham apa yang mami cuba sampaikan ni.