Dah 22 tahun!!!!!

Assalam Sayang Daddy,

Tanggal 11.10.1990 jatuh pada hari sabtu....Pernikahan kita berlangsung selepas solat Isyak.

Permulaan hidup baru sebagai suami dan isteri...dan kita hanya bermesra melalui surat2 sahaja sebelum diijab kabulkan..pertunangan selama 1 Tahun 2 bulan ... tidak seperti org lain...kita belajar bercinta sesudah berumahtangga...

 Bertukar sarung cincin...dah takder dah cincin ni...tak muat dah...dalam cincin ada tertulis jai & ida 10.11.90..ingat lagi daddy

 terasa diri huduh sungguh dalam pakaian nih...ceh....

Tanggal 11.11.1990 (Ahad) gambar semasa majlis persandingan...waktu bersalam dengan mak dan abah yang paling menyedihkan...

Tanggal 10.11.12 baru-baru ini...adalah hari ulangtahun perkahwinan mami & daddy...mami & daddy telah hidup bersama selama 22 tahun...terasa masa begitu pantas berlalu...diri semakin meningkat usia..badan pun naik sama!! dan tidak segagah dulu2 lagi...dulu2 pokok kelapa pun boleh panjat...mengecat rumah yang besor tu sorang2 jer...huarghhh....anak2 pulak semakin membesar...semakin banyak ragam, kerenah dan masalah dengan anak-anak....jangan daddy pun sama banyak meragam dan kerenah sudah lah... mami gi duk rumah org2tua nanti...  :)

mami tak tau perasaan daddy macamana...tapi perasaan mami ni bercampur baur...suka dah tentulah sebab bukan mudah untuk bertahan selama 22 tahun....banyak perkara yang berlaku yang telah mengajar mami erti hidup bersama....sepanjang hidup bersama selama 22 tahun ni...mami tak pernah berhenti belajar...hari2 belajar jika ada perkara yang baru...terutamanya dari daddy dan anak2...

one thing that i learn throughout our marriage, "MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING" (nelayan ngan pramugari pun ok jer...hikhikhik), but of course it's important to our life  tapi cukup dengan apa yang ada... sudah memadai...duit tidak menjamin kebahagian tetapi duit perlu untuk meneruskan kehidupan...if we love each other, material will come secondary....

all i ever need is attention, love, caring, hugging, caressing and touching while watching tv etc...walaupun dah kawin 22 tahun....that's still important to me...when i tell a story/problem i had at work or with the children...i need attention, i need respond...so that i know i'm still important (than your epad ya - janganlah merajuk dan tak pegang terus lak...dun make me feel guilty) ...and i'm still matters to you and the kids and that you still care for me...maybe i'm getting older and getting more sensitive...please be patient with me....

i also learn through our marriage that patient is the utmost important to  hold on to .... tanpanya...segalanya boleh menjadi debu.... :(

harapan mami semoga kita akan menyambut ulangtahun perkahwinan kita di tahun-tahun yang akan datang insyaAllah dalam keadaan kita berdua masih sihat dan anak2 menjadi anak2 yang solehah, tidak lupakan mami dan daddynya...amin....

Us now with our anugerah Allah swt...

Nota:  Luv u daddy...

Minum Air Pada Waktu yang Betul

A

I WAN TO BE SPECIAl

Moga terus berseri2

Maaf....bukan sengaja...

Satu hari seorang lelaki yg frust dgn isterinya telah pergi kpd Amirul Mukminin Umar al Khattab utk mengadu, tiba di rumah Amirul Mukminin dia terkejut mendengar jeritan isteri pemimpin umat Islam itu sedang mmarahi Umar al Khattab ra. Dia pun merasakan kesamaan antara isterinya dgn isteri Amirul Mukminin, iaitu sikap cerewet & tak menghargainya, lantas dia pun pergi... Tiba2 Amirul Mukminin memanggilnya.. Dia pun datang kembali kepadanya lalu mengatakan dgn hampa.. Aku menyangkakan aku Saja yg Ada masalah dgn isteriku.. Rupa2nya Tuan pun menghadapi masalah yg sama ! Apa jwpn Amirul Mukminin ??? Jawapan yg menampakkan hikmah beliau spt yg Nabi sifatkan , katanya pd lelaki yg mengharapkan kesempurnaan pd seseorang isteri itu, Wahai sahabat! Ketahuilah olehmu bhw isteri adalah anugerah Allah utk kita, Mereka banyak berkorban utk kita, memasak utk kita, membasuh pakaian, melahirkan anak2 utk kita Dan mendidik anak2.. Adatnya memang kadang2 Ada kesilapan.. Tapi ketahuilah olehmu Wahai saudaraku, satu hari pasti tiba, Samada mereka wafat sebelum kita lalu kita berehat Dari kekurangan & kejahatan mulut mereka yg mungkin tak disengajakan, atau kita yg pergi sebelum mereka, lalu mereka tak dapat menyakiti kita lagi dgn sikap atau ucapan... Wahai saudara hadapilah hidup ini dgn kesabaran, kerana dunia tak pernah sempurna... Sekian Tamat.. Jom sama2 kita menghargai para isteri... Seeeru 'ala barakatilLah ( teruskan kehidupan dengan keberkatan yang Ada di sisi Allah) ...

Nota...maaf jika diriku ada menyakiti hatimu...

Tanda-tanda Kecil Kiamat

Wahai kawan-kawan ku tersayang... Bersyukurlah hari ini kita dilimpahkan nikmat2 dan masih hidup. Cuba fikir-fikirkan berapa banyak tanda-tanda dibawah telah menghampiri kita.... Na'uzubbillah. Antara tanda-tanda KIAMAT KECIL berdasarkan hadis:

1) Penaklukan Baitulmuqaddis. Dari Auf b. Malik lah.a. katanya, Rasulullah s.a.w telah bersabda: "saya menghitung 6 perkara menj

elang - hari kiamat." Baginda menyebutkan salah 1 di antaranya, iaitu penaklukan Baitulmuqaddis." - Sahih Bukhari

2) Zina bermaharajalela."Dan tinggallah manusia2 yang buruk, yang seenaknya melakukan persetubuhan seperti himar (keldai). Maka pada zaman mereka inilah kiamat akan datang." - Sahih Muslim

3) Bermaharajalela alat muzik. "Pada akhir zaman akan terjadi tanah runtuh, rusuhan dan perubahan muka.
" Ada yang bertanya kepada Rasulullah; "Wahai Rasulullah bila hal ini terjadi?" Baginda menjawab; "Apabila telah bermaharajalela bunyian (muzik) dan penyanyi-penyanyi wanita" - Ibnu Majah

4) Menghias masjid & membanggakannya. "Di antara tanda-tanda telah dekatnya kiamat ialah manusia bermegahan dalam mendirikan masjid"
- Riwayat -Nasai.

5) Munculnya kekejian, memutuskan kerabat & hubungan dengan tetangga tidak baik. "Tidak akan datang kiamat sehingga banyak perbuatan dan perkataan keji, memutuskan hubungan silaturahim dan sikap yang buruk dalam tetangga." - Riwayat Ahmad dan Hakim.

6) Ramai orang soleh meninggal dunia. "Tidak akan datang hari kiamat sehingga Allah mengambil orang-orang yang baik & ahli agama di muka bumi, maka tiada yang tinggal padanya kecuali orang2 yang hina dan buruk yang tidak mengetahui yang makruf dan tidak mengingkari kemungkaran" - Riwayat Ahmad

7) Orang yang hina mendapat kedudukan terhormat. "Di antara tanda semakin dekatnya kiamat ialah dunia akan dikuasai oleh Luka' bin Luka' (orang yang bodoh dan hina). Maka orang yang paling baik ketika itu ialah orang yang beriman yang diapit oleh 2 orang mulia"
- Riwayat Thabrani

8) Mengucapkan salam kepada orang yang dikenalnya sahaja. "Sesungguhnya di antara tanda-tanda telah dekatnya hari kiamat ialah manusia tidak mahu mengucapkan salam kepada orang lain kecuali yang dikenalnya saja." - Riwayat Ahmad

9) Banyak wanita yang berpakaian tetapi hakikatnya telanjang.
Diriwayatkan dari Abu Hurairah lah.a. "Di antara tanda-tanda telah hari kiamat ialah akan muncul pakaian2 wanita & apabila mereka memakainya keadaannya seperti telanjang".

10) Bulan sabit kelihatan besar. "Di antara tanda-tanda telah dekatnya hari kiamat ialah menggelembung (membesarnya) bulan sabit."
- Riwayat Thabrani

11) Banyak dusta dan tidak tepat dalam menyampaikan berita. "Pada akhir zaman akan muncul pembohong2 besar yang datang kepadamu dengan membawa berita-berita yang belum pernah kamu dengar & belum pernah didengar oleh bapa-bapa kamu sebelumnya, kerana itu jauhkanlah dirimu dari mereka agar mereka tidak menyesatkanmu & memfitnahmu" - Sahih Muslim

12) Banyak saksi palsu & menyimpan kesaksian yang benar. "Sesungguhnya sebelum datang nya hari kiamat akan banyak kesaksian palsu dan disembunyikan kesaksian yang benar." - Riwayat Ahmad

13) Negara Arab menjadi padang rumput & sungai. "Tidak akan datang hari kiamat sehingga negeri Arab kembali menjadi padang rumput dan sungai-sungai" - Sahih Muslim

Sumber: http://www.al-azim.com/~beringin/agama/menu.htm

Lawak Pagi Senin

The Arrogance of Authority 
  
  A DEA officer stopped at a ranch in Texas , and talked with an old rancher.
  He told the rancher, "I need to inspect your ranch for illegally grown drugs."
  The rancher said, "Okay , but don't go in that field over there...",
as he pointed out the location.
 
The DEA officer verbally exploded saying, "Mister, I have the authority
of the Federal Government with me !"
   
  Reaching into his rear pants pocket, he removed his badge and
proudly displayed it to the rancher.
  "See this badge?!  This badge means I am allowed to go wherever
I wish.... On any land !!   No questions asked or answers given!!  Have I made myself clear...
  do you understand ?!!"
 The rancher nodded politely, apologized, and went about his chores. 
       

   A short time later, the old rancher heard loud screams, looked up, and
saw the DEA officer running for his life, being chased by the rancher's
big Santa Gertrudis bull...
   
With every step the bull was gaining ground on the officer, and
it seemed likely that he'd sure enough get gored before
he reached safety.  The officer was clearly terrified.
  The rancher threw down his tools, ran to the fence, and 
yelled at the top of his lungs.....  
 (I just love this part...)   
    
   

 

   "Your badge, show him your BADGE. 

Wow - good news for a change!

If you never learn the language of gratitude, you will never be on speaking terms with happiness.

 

 

THIS ONE HAD ME IN TEARS...

A father and mother kissing their dying little girl goodbye. If you are wondering why all the medic people are bowing: in less than an hour, two small children in the next room are able to live thanks to the little girl's kidney and liver.

The Pastor's Ass

The Pastor entered his donkey in a race and it won.

The Pastor was so pleased with the donkey
that he entered it in the race again and it won again.

The local paper read:
PASTOR'S ASS OUT FRONT.

The Bishop was so upset with this kind of
publicity that he ordered the Pastor not  to enter
the donkey in another race.

The next day the local paper headline
read:


BISHOP SCRATCHES
PASTOR'S ASS.

This was too much for the Bishop so he
ordered the Pastor to get rid of the donkey.

The Pastor decided to give it to a Nun in a
nearby convent.

The local paper, hearing of the news, posted
the following headline the next day:
NUN HAS BEST ASS IN TOWN.

The Bishop fainted.

He informed the Nun that she would have to
get rid of the donkey so she sold it to a farmer for $10.
The next day the paper read:

NUN SELLS ASS FOR $10.

This was too much for the Bishop so he
ordered the Nun to buy back the donkey and lead it to the plains where it could run wild.

The next day the headlines read:

NUN ANNOUNCES HER ASS IS WILD AND FREE.

The Bishop was buried the next day.

The moral of the story is . . . being
concerned about public opinion can
bring you much grief and misery . . even shorten your
life.

So be yourself and enjoy life.

Stop worrying about everyone else's ass and
you'll be a lot happier and live longer!

Have a nice day!

Lawak pagi senin

After sorting through a stack of resumes he found four people who were equally qualified -- an American, a Russian, an Australian and a Gujarati from India.  He decided to call the four in and ask them only one question. Their answer would determine which of them would get the job. The day came and as the four sat around the conference room table the interviewer asked, "What is the fastest thing you know?" Dave, the American, replied, "A THOUGHT. It just pops into your head. There's no warning that it's on the way; it's just there. A thought is the fastest thing I know of." "That's very good!" replied the interviewer. "And now you sir?" he asked Vladimir, the Russian.  "Hmm... let me see. A blink! It comes and goes and you don't know that it ever happened. A BLINK is the fastest thing I know."  "Excellent!" said the interviewer. "The blink of an eye, that's a very popular cliché for speed." He then turned to George, the Australian who was contemplating his reply.  "Well, out at my dad's ranch, you step out of the house and on the wall there's a light switch. When you flip that switch, way out across the pasture the light in the barn comes on Yep, Turning on a LIGHT is the fastest thing I can think of." The interviewer was very impressed with the third answer and thought he had found his man. "It's hard to beat the speed of light" he said.  Turning to Patel, the Guy from India, the fourth and final man, the interviewer posed the same question. Patel replied, (in his Gujju accent!) "Apter herring da 3 prebius ansers sir, et's obius to me dat the fastest thing is DIARRHEA." "WHAT!?" said the interviewer, stunned by the response. The others were already giggling in their seats... "Oh, I can expleyn sir," said Patel.  "You see, sir, da ader day my tummy was pheeling bad and so I run so fast to the baatrum,, but before I could THINK, BLINK, or TURN ON THE LIGHT, I alredi done it !"  Patel is now the new "Office Manager" at Wal-Mart in Washington.

These Are Just Pencils! I am Just Me!!

THESE ARE JUST PENCILS. 

Please.......READ THE PARABLE AT THE END!

A PENCIL MAKER TOLD THE PENCIL 5 IMPORTANT LESSONS JUST BEFORE PUTTING IT IN THE BOX :


1.) EVERYTHING YOU DO WILL ALWAYS LEAVE A MARK.

2.) YOU CAN ALWAYS CORRECT THE MISTAKES YOU MAKE.

3.) WHAT IS IMPORTANT IS WHAT IS INSIDE OF YOU.

4.) IN LIFE, YOU WILL UNDERGO PAINFUL SHARPENINGS, WHICH WILL ONLY MAKE YOU BETTER.

5.) TO BE THE BEST PENCIL, YOU MUST ALLOW YOURSELF

 

TO BE HELD AND GUIDED BY THE HAND THAT HOLDS YOU.

 

 

We all need to be constantly sharpened.

This parable may encourage you to know that you are a special person, with unique God-given talents and abilities.

Only you can fulfill the purpose which you were born to accomplish.

Never allow yourself to get discouraged and think that your life is insignificant and cannot be changed .

 

Like the pencil, always remember that the most important part of who you are, is what's inside of you.

 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     

TAHUKAH ANDA???

Informasi Dot My

Terima kasih, Tun Dr Mahathir!

TAHUKAH ANDA??

1. Dia lah yang menggerakkan negara islam yang lain untuk membantu Bosnia & Herzogovinia ketika umat islam disana disembelih oleh pengganas Serbia.

2. Dia juga lah yg menghantar ratusan komando Malaysia yang dibawa masuk secara sulit ke Bosnia untuk membantu saudara seIslam ketika era pencerobohan dan pembunuhan beramai-ramai umat Islam di Bosnia ketika itu. “Kalau negara Arab ini tidak datang membantu, kita hantar sahaja askar kita,” - Tun Mahathir.

3) Dia juga lah berpakat dengan kerajaan Sultan Brunei menyediakan jumlah dana yang berjuta dollar untuk membeli senjata dan peluru anti kereta kebal untuk tentera Islam Bosnia.

4) Dia lah yang pernah menangis ketika melawat Bunker yang menjadi pejabat Yasser Arafat di Palestine.

5) Dia juga lah pemimpin islam yg Yasser Arafat hubungi meminta bantuan dan pertolongan ketika diserang oleh rejim zionis.

6) Dia juga lah yg mempertaruhkan nyawa isterinya,Tun Dr Siti Hasmah menaiki pesawat ke Baghdad membawa bantuan kemanusiaan kepada umat islam demi untuk melepaskn sekatan Amerika Syarikat.

7) Dia lah yang digelar MahaFiraun dan dia jugalah yang lantang mengutuk kekejaman Yakjuj Makjuj / Zionis ke atas umat islam serta mempertahankan islam dimata dunia.

8) Dia lah yang berusaha keras, tak hanya duduk berdoa tanpa berbuat apa2.

9) Dia lah yang ketika saudara islam yang berlainan parti mendoakan kecelakaan untuknya. Tapi dia diizin oleh Allah SWT masuk ke dalam KAABAH.

10) Dia jugalah pernah ditembak dan mengorbankan jawatan tertinggi yang beliau ada bagi menyelamatkan umat Islam di Bosnia.

Malah beliau kini dianggap sebagai seorang pemimpin dunia yang berjaya meskipun memimpin sebuah negara yang kecil. Beliau bukan hanya berjaya Memerdekakan negaranya dari semua segi, tetapi berusaha memerdekakan negara-negara lain dari belenggu falsafah pembangunan yang dijana dari barat yang jelas muflis idealistiknya..

Siapa dia? Ya.. dialah..

TUN DR MAHATHIR BIN MOHAMAD, Bekas PERDANA MENTERI MALAYSIA dan manusia yang dihormati UMAT ISLAM dan PEMIMPIN ISLAM seluruh dunia. Thanks Tun!

Kredit: Kakibising

 

KASIH HINGGA KE SYURGA...SUAMI MITHALI

‘Saya jaga dia sampai bila-bila’

Oleh Yusmizal Dolah Aling
yusmizal@hmetro.com.my

     

KASIH...Abdul Hamid menjaga isterinya di rumah mereka di Pantai Permai, Kerinchi.

KUALA LUMPUR: “Pernah satu ketika, saya hilang arah dan tak tahu nak buat apa. Buntu memikirkan anak-anak dengan keadaan isteri yang kritikal, saya pula dibuang kerja, namun saya kuatkan semangat menghadapi ujian ini.

“Alhamdulillah, saya berjaya laluinya dan isteri semakin sihat. Insya-Allah, saya akan jaga dia sampai bila-bila,” kata Abdul Hamid Alias, pemandu teksi yang menjaga isterinya selepas disahkan menghidap kanser tulang tahap empat sejak dua tahun lalu.

Katanya, kasih sayang yang kuat terhadap Zurida Yusuff, 44, sedikit pun tidak pernah pudar biarpun rutin harian hidupnya berubah sama sekali apabila terpaksa mengambil alih semua tanggungjawab menjaga anak, memasak, mengemas rumah termasuk memberi tumpuan sepenuhnya kepada isterinya itu, setiap hari.

Menurutnya, pengesahan doktor mengenai keadaan kesihatan isterinya pada 2010 begitu memberi kesan kepada hidupnya sehingga diberhentikan kerja sebagai pengawal keselamatan kerana terlalu kerap mengambil cuti menjaga insan tersayang.

We Luv U DADDY

By Mufti Ismail Menk

Father’s who are kind, loving, caring, tolerant & patient, who spend maximum time with their families and strive to be rolemodels are the greatest asset to a home.

The role of a father to protect the family and instill spirituality, values & morals can only be fulfilled correctly if he realizes the seriousness of this great responsibility.

The Almighty has instilled the respect of a father in the eyes of the children but his actions can either build upon it or destroy it as time passes.

When the father of the home is irresponsible, the entire home is affected negatively and the future of the children is at stake.

Let’s become the best dads possible who bring our children up in the best possible way by the Help of the Almighty

Daddy:  Thank you for being a great father...ur always around when we need u...in fact ur always at home with us and spend most of your time with us...Thank you for being kind, loving, caring, tolerant & patient towards us.  WLU.

Urgent : Silly Video, My Advice To Muslims.

Credit: OutSyedTheBox

Its getting worse. So far 21 deaths have taken place throughout the Islamic world caused by violence over a silly video clip made by some ex-convict in far away America. 

The latest is a suicide attack on a minibus in Kabul, the Afghan capital which killed 12 people on Tuesday, including seven foreigners. The Hezb-e-Islami group claimed responsibility, saying the blast was retaliation for the film mocking the Prophet.  "A woman wearing a suicide vest blew herself up in response to the anti-Islam video," said Zubair Sediqqi, a spokesman for the militant faction

In Egypt an al-Qaida-linked Egyptian jihadist, Ahmed Ashoush, issued a religious edict, or fatwa, saying it is justified to kill anyone who took part in the making of the prophet film. His fatwa, posted on a militant website, says the blood of the participants in the movie "should be shed, including the producer, the director and the actors" and that "their killing is a duty of every capable Muslim." 

Here are some pictures from around the Islamic countries protesting the video clip.

Picture above : this is the site of that suicide attack in Kabul that killed 12 people. Including the young woman suicide bomber, that makes 13 people dead in Kabul. Nothing has been achieved other than killing people.

Burning your own country and running wild in your own country. This picture above is from Jakarta. And below here is an Indonesian Policeman shooting tear gas at the protesters, his own people. 

In the picture below, protesters smashing windows in Sanaa, Yemen. Their own windows.

Protesters practising their gate climbing skills in Sanaa, Yemen. Just after this picture was taken, Police fired shots to disperse them. Demonstrating in your own country and getting shot by your own Police.

This is Tahrir Square, Cairo. The mob is burning cars, their own cars. 

The Bangla Bhais did not want to be left out. A protest in Dacca in Bangladesh.

This was Jalalabad in Afghanistan. They are too poor. So they burned dry grass and old tyres. If they had cars and buses they would have burned the cars and buses.

The next picture is Tunis in Tunisia. Police have fired tear gas to disperse protesters. 

This is Khartoum in Sudan. There is no US Embassy in Khartoum. So they attacked and burnt the German Embassy instead. No McDonald's or KFC either. No Starbucks. Boring place.

The next picture is the saddest. These are young kids in Afghanistan. That looks like a six year old on the left. Maybe I am mistaken, maybe he is seven years old. The next generation of demonstrators, protesters and suicide bombers. They are already street protesters. Protesting against things they have no idea about or understand about. How many of these kids will become literate in say the next 10 years? How many of them will become suicide bombers? How many of them will live long healthy lives and die natural deaths?

Muslims are in this predicament because they do not follow the teachings of their Prophet in the Quran. 

If people throw an insult at you, what should Muslims do? What did the Prophet teach us in the Quran? Surely Muslims must have the faith that the Quran was taught to them by the Prophet. Surely the Muslims must have faith in the Quran.

When faced with insults, annoying language or hurtful words the Prophet taught us in the Quran :

Surah 3:186   "You shall surely be tried in your possessions and your persons and you shallsurely hear many hurtful things from those who were given the Book before you and from those who set up equals to ALLAH. But if you show patience and fortitude and act righteously, that indeed is a matter of high resolve."

Here it is in Malay :

Surah Al Imran : 86 "Demi sesungguhnya, kamu akan diuji pada harta benda dan diri kamu. Dan demi sesungguhnya, kamu akan mendengar dari orang-orang yang telah diberikan Kitab dahulu daripada kamu dan orang-orang yang musyrik: banyak (tuduhan-tuduhan dan cacian) yang menyakitkan hati. Dalam pada itu, jika kamu bersabar dan bertaqwa maka sesungguhnya yang demikian itu adalah dari perkara-perkara yang dikehendaki diambil berat "

Folks, this was written down over 1400 years ago. The Muslims have been hearing and the Muslims will continue to hear hurtful things from other people. They cannot be burning their own cars and getting shot by their own Police each time some satanic provocateur makes a video, writes a book or draws a cartoon. 

When faced with such insults we must show more maturity, patience, fortitude and we must act more righteously. That will disarm these provocateurs. The fatwa that everyone who was involved in making that video clip should be killed is therefore completely wrong.  It is insane.

If the Muslims also riot and run crazy all the time, then they are only proving true what the provocateurs are saying - that the Muslims are a wild and crazy people.

Please pass this message around.  Even if we can save one life or one limb, that would be a good thing.